Wow. Have a Giveaway and then go AWOL (*Absent Without Leave*). Where have I been? Grading. Prepping. It’s about this time of year that I can just feel the end of the semester looking around the corner, and I go wonkers writing the weekly blog posts and printing off assignments, and writing tests, just wanting it all to be done. But I haven’t been totally inactive. Here’s my QMIA (*Quilter Missing In Action*) report:
Cut and pressed about 45 miles of double binding for the Amish With A Twist – 2 quilt. It’s still hanging out on the ironing board, waiting for me. (I seemed to have been passed over by the binding fairies somehow.)
Always Bee Learning quilt block for April, with an ogee pattern. I thought I laid it out as best I could (in this bee, we receive our fabrics and then stitch up the block), but I feel like I could have done better if I’d been able to slip in some of my stash to get a better distribution of colors, as I don’t want to disappoint her. I do hope the quilter is happy with it, but I’ll gladly do another if she’s not. I finally got out the Curve Master foot that my friend Rhonda told me about, lo these many years ago, and after cutting myself a few curves out of some scrap fabric and practicing, I felt confident enough to go at the bee curves. Rhonda says after you do a whole quilt of Drunkard’s Path, you’ll be considered a Pro. I’ll take your word for it, Rhonda. I tried to watch a YouTube video showing how-to, but that was the weekend that Adobe updated all their Flash software, which apparently didn’t work with my computer, so to be fair, some of my quilting time was spent cursing the computer, downloading, cursing some more, then uninstalling, reinstalling, etc etc. You’ve all been there.
Two Mid-Century Modern Bee blocks for April for Debbie. She only asked for one, but I got going and forgot to stop.
A birthday lunch with my kid, who is now thirty-nine and holding. He has to stay that age so I don’t have to declare that I’m any older. Oh, and just down the street from where he works is the Purl Soho warehouse for the West Coast, which coincidentally was having a sale, so these came home with me.
I also graded and prepped an inordinate amount, caught not one, but two, plagiarizers, but you don’t really want to hear about that. Now to change gears a little, here’s a quote from a new book by curator and art advocate Sarah Lewis:
This quote is from Brainpickings, a website I haunt. The author of this review, Maria Popova, often reviews books and brings together a lovely mix of ideas. While I’ve been unable to get to the quilting, I’ve been thinking a lot about why I do what I do: cut a piece of cloth into little pieces and sew it back together again. Of course, that’s the simplistic way of looking at things, for in the cutting and sewing lies a high degree of autonomy–of my being able to invent the design, give input to the creative process and even have a Fail once in a while. I like the above quote, because while I’ll probably never have the fame of other quilters, Mastery seems like a worthwhile goal. And apparently, according to Sarah Lewis, the author of The Rise: Creativity, the Gift of Failure and the Search for Mastery, we don’t have to be perfectionists, nor have constant successes day after day. But we do have to be willing to shut ourselves away and work at it, embracing failure and going forward. Or, as Popova says, “This is why, Lewis argues, a centerpiece of mastery is the notion of failure.”
Popova continues by saying: “One essential element of understanding the value of failure is the notion of the ‘deliberate incomplete.’ (Cue in Marie Curie, who famously noted in a letter to her brother: “One never notices what has been done; one can only see what remains to be done.”)” And then Popova quotes Lewis:
Okay, that’s enough brain food for one day. I’m off to climb that mountain of binding, think about my goals (next post), and possible even finish grading the most recent literature paper that is in a stack downstairs on the dining room table.
But let me leave you with this gorgeous quilt from Cindy, of Live A Colorful Life, who is a one of those quilters who, while understanding the idea of the “deliberate incomplete,” also has a LOT of deliberate completes, such as her Marcelle Medallion, from *here.* She and I have often talked often about the WIPs that float in our closets and cupboards, yet I’d like to morph Lewis’ idea of the “deliberate incomplete,” to a new place–perhaps that of a quilt that is not ready to be finished whether because the quilt maker’s “other” life gets in the way, or that the quilter has “lost her mojo” (a phrase often seen on blogs) or does not yet have mastery of the skills needed to finish up (and certainly, that may include time management!). Yet mine and yours and Cindy’s quilts that are on our beds, our walls and folded ready for visits from family and friends, certainly is a testament that we do finish, that we are — at some level — on our way to mastery.
10 thoughts on “Quilter Missing In Action”
That is so interesting Elizabeth, thought provoking and certainly brain food! I truly think that some quilts must wait for the right time to be finished, for any or all the reasons you say! I link to think we have them ‘aging’ like good wine!
Another thought provoking post Elizabeth. You really are a writer at heart. I’ll need more time to process everything you’ve said but am certainly going to ponder the notion of the “deliberate incomplete”. I recently asked my husband why it is that it’s so hard for me to fully complete some things. He has the same problem. In some respects I know it’s a form of procrastination. Other times I think it’s deeper than that . . . perhaps even a fear of success/failure. Oh the angst of the creative soul.
I’m quickly testing this and then I’ll add another comment. Hopefully.
Okay (long story, involving Word Press….)
So that was certainly a surprise ending! But I am going to reframe all those unfinished WIPs as “deliberately incomplete.” I like that so much better and it sounds positive rather than negative. As always you give me SO very much to think about. You read the most interesting things. We need to talk.
Aren’t the rolling diamonds blocks fun! And yes, Cindy’s quilt is gorgeous
I love this description of quilting: “cut a piece of cloth into little pieces and sew it back together again.” Sometimes I feel like that’s what life is–reassembling the given pieces in a more pleasing/productive/rewarding way.
I do love the concept of “deliberate incomplete”. Having a mother that was a teacher, I can understand the time restraints. Guess that is why I became a nurse!
Early in my return to quilting I recall fussing about “cutting fabric into small pieces and putting it back together” – just could not handle the absurdity of that effort! But then….then I just kept going and going and going – accepting the process. And surely I have, over almost 100 quilts in 4 years, created any number of “spirit breaks”. Such a thought-provoking post, Elizabeth – thanks so much! My sister calls me a master sewer and I accept her adoration and just chuckle to myself.
Thank you for this wonderfully inspiring post, Elizabeth!